10 Reasons Why I think it’s time you hire a Life Coach


1. You are always telling people your problems

You’re always complaining about your situation, and your friends and family are sick of hearing about it, but they won’t tell you. You only talk about your problems, but you do nothing to improve your situation. You simply want to be a victim, and you enjoy it when other people feel sorry for you. Most people constantly complain about their relationships, jobs, money, surroundings, and so on. When you’re constantly telling people about your problems, your attention is drawn to the problems rather than the solutions. Whatever you focus on expands, and you will always have more problems to discuss. 

“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. Don’t complain.” Maya Angelou

I think you should hire a life coach. Your problems will not go away just because you talk about them; instead, you must stop broadcasting them and take action. A life coach believes that you already have all of the answers to your problems; all you need is some guidance to uncover them and find solutions. Coaching will awaken your “inner spirit,” which contains all of the solutions to your problems.

2. You feel stuck in your life

There is no progress in your life; you are frustrated, nothing is working out, and you are unsure how to improve your current situation. You’re aware that you should be further along in your life by now, but something is preventing you from doing so. You’ve hit a brick wall in your life; nothing seems to be working out, and you’re at a loss for what to do next.

I grew up believing that when you are stuck in life, it is due to witchcraft, that someone is jealous of your life and is causing you to have bad luck. The only way to get rid of bad luck was to seek the assistance of a sangoma or prophet. Believe me, I’ve been there; nothing changes, and you keep having the same problems. You continue to look for more powerful sangomas or prophets. It never works because the solution we seek is not out there.

“Life is a progress, and not a station.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

I think you require professional help; a life coach will help you in discovering your potential and removing the obstacles that have been holding you back. A life coach will assist you in thinking and digging deep within yourself to determine what you truly want in life and create a plan to achieve it.

3. You set goals, but you never achieve anything

Your goals have become daydreams because you set them but never act on them. You have brilliant ideas, but because you never put them into action, they fade away, and you lose sight of your goals. You can have a great business idea, but if you don’t act on it, nothing will happen, and you will remain stuck in your current position. The majority of people have great ideas, but they do not follow through on them. It’s pointless to set goals without a strategy for achieving them.

.”Action is the foundational key to all success.” — Pablo Picasso

I think you need help with your plan of action and accountability in order to achieve your goals. It’s easier when you have a partner who can help you focus, encourage, inspire, and keep you motivated until you reach your goal. A life coach will assist you in focusing on what is important in your life, allowing you to start moving in the right direction and becoming successful in life. You can have a fantastic idea, but without a plan of action, it is meaningless.

4. You know exactly what you want but you have no clear plan

You have a vision or a goal, but no clear plan; you don’t know where to begin. You have an idea of where you want to go, but you have no idea how to get there. You may know where you want to go, but you’ll be stuck like everyone else if you don’t know how to get there. You must sit down and plan how you will get there. Most people have lovely dreams and know what kind of life they want to live, but they are unable to put their dreams into action, which keeps them stuck in the life they don’t want.

“All you need is the plan, the road map, and the courage to press on to your destination.” – Earl Nightingale

You’ll need a life coach to help you figure out where you want to go and how to get there. A life coach will walk you through each step and create an action plan with you so that you can get to where you want to be. Life coaching functions as a link between where you are now and where you want to be in the future. 

5. You don’t believe in yourself

You doubt yourself; you don’t believe you’re capable of living the life of your dreams. It is critical to believe in yourself; you must have faith in your abilities. When you lack confidence, it affects your career, relationships, and nearly every other aspect of your life. I know because I’ve been there; I was holding myself back because I never believed in myself; it’s not a pleasant place to be, and even those around you see you the way you see yourself. “This is not for people like you,” they will even say.

“If you don’t have any confidence, you’re not going to do anything.”– Stefon Digg

A life coach will help you regain your confidence by working with you and help you in gaining a clear understanding of who you are and what you can achieve. We are all capable of more in life; we just doubt ourselves at times. A life coach can assist you in discovering your strengths and abilities. You have all the power you need to be, do, and live your life to the fullest; all you need is a little guidance to bring out your inner strength.

6. You feel lost and alone

Your life makes no sense to you, and you feel lost and alone as if no one cares about you. You feel like you’re stuck in a hole with no way out and no one to help you. We sometimes get lost in life, reaching a point where we are frustrated, confused, and wonder, “What am I living for?” This is a question I’ve asked myself several times in my life. When you ask yourself this question, you may feel as if there is no point in living; some people are able to persevere, while others commit suicide. If you find yourself feeling lost, alone, frustrated, and confused, you need help.

“The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald

A life coach will help you find your way and will be there for you as a friend, encouraging, motivating, and assisting you in getting your life back on track. You need someone to talk to, someone to whom you can express your frustrations without fear of being judged. A friend you can rely on, knowing that whatever you say will not be repeated to anyone else. You don’t have to be alone; let me assist you.

7. You can’t make a life changing decision

You’re undecided, you can’t make a life-changing decision, you’ve examined your situation from every angle, and you still can’t decide. Even if you make a decision, you don’t trust that it’s the right one; you return to square one and become confused. You may believe you have made a decision one moment and then doubt it the next. When you are undecided, you have no peace in your life; there is a battle within you, and being indecisive keeps you frustrated.

“Too often people get stuck in state of over thinking the result is that, they never reach a decision” – Steve Backley

The best way is to hire a life coach; a life coach will assist you in making the right decision because deep down you know what you must decide. You just need a little push in the right direction to help you decide and trust yourself. You will have peace in your life once you have made your decision.

8. You seem to be living a great life

You appear to have everything under control, but inside you are a ticking time bomb ready to explode at any moment. Your life is pretty damn good; everyone envies you and thinks you’re living the good life, but things aren’t as they appear. You don’t talk to anyone because you want to appear strong to others, but when you’re alone, you feel like a mess, struggling, and your inner world is crumbling.

“More often than not, a heroes most epic battle is the one you never see; it’s the battle that goes on within him or herself.” Kevin Smith

You don’t have to go through this alone; I believe you should hire a life coach. A life coach can assist you in sorting out the mess inside of you so that you can live a balanced life. You won’t be judged for being yourself; you won’t have to pretend to be someone you’re not; all you need is a friend who will understand you and be there for you whenever you need them.

9.You are all over the place, doing everything

You lack focus; you’re all over the place, doing everything; you’re great at starting things, but you never finish them. When you start something, you have so much potential and energy, but you lack focus; you don’t focus on finishing one thing at a time; before you finish, you start something new and forget about the other. You have so many things hanging in the balance; you’re stuck in life, you need help.

“Be like a postage stamp. Stick to one thing until you get there. ” -Josh Billings

A life coach will assist you in focusing and achieving one goal at a time, and you will have an accountability partner. You need to figure out who you are and what you truly want out of life. Life coaching is a solution-focused approach that focuses on achieving results. 

10. You feel bored in your life, no excitement

Your life is routine, you are unhappy with your current situation, and you desperately need to change. Your life is boring and repetitive. When you do the same things every day, nothing exciting happens, and you become bored and frustrated. You require a new challenge, something that will reawaken your senses and restore the excitement you once felt.

“The purpose of our lives is to be happy.” – Dalai Lama

You require the assistance of a life coach in order to reclaim your groove, turn things around, and take your life to the next level. A life coach can assist you in finding a new challenge to reintroduce excitement into your life.

What a personal trainer does for your health and fitness, a life coach does for the rest of your life.

If you are struggling with any of the above and require assistance, please send a message and book your free 1-hour coaching session.

Published by Thuli Silinda

I am a certified life coach, I help individuals, to create their dream life. I can help you move from where you are, to where you want to be and achieve your dreams. Whether your dream is to be healthy, find a job, change a career, start a business or find your life partner. I believe you can be, do, have anything you want in your life, nothing is impossible with the help and support of a life coach.

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